Dating Season Is Here: 4 Fresh Ways to Meet Someone Special This Summer
Summer is coming and so official dating season.
I don’t use the apps— I did in the past and it was a LOT of fun, but nowadays, I only find myself staying on for a total of 5 days before I delete them. Why? Because there are too many options and honestly it feels a little empty.
And even though it seems like we can only navigate the online dating hellscape, I think we should try a few things to mix up the dating world. In this article, I want to give you some tips I’ll be implementing this season to improve my odds of meeting someone special.
Let’s first focus on changing up the game completely!
Date someone different: If you aren’t finding much luck with your current “type” it’s time to switch it up. Why keep going in circles dating the same person over and over again when you can see what else is out there. Everyone is attractive in their own way, and honestly, personality plays a much bigger role than looks (even though those are super important too.) Frequent new places and experience new people— you never know who you’ll meet.
Get off the apps: My primary issue with the apps is the timing. I’m not going to wait 5 days for you to respond back to message. I’m sure my fellow Aries aspected ladies understand what I mean. There’s so many times you can repeat that over and over again, it just puts a sour taste in my mouth to dating online. My goal this time around is to meet someone in person, I think it’ll be easier that way because we have already met in person, so no major surprises (if the attraction is there then boom).
Slow dating: We don’t have to rush to get to know each other or to be intimate. When you take things slowly, it allows you to really figure out if you not only are attracted to the person, but also if you both are compatible mentally and emotionally. Give it a few dates, you should be able to discern if he or she is someone you want to spend more time with—especially after the 2nd date.
Micro-flirting: As a flirty person, this is my favorite. Micro-flirting is testing the waters on someone you might like or find attractive. It’s giving a small compliment here and there and seeing how he or she reacts. If they come back with another compliment, there might be something there!
Let’s try a few things differently this dating season, this could be the year you meet someone absolutely amazing!